On December 3rd, the New York Senate rejected a bill that would have given same-sex couples the ability to marry, effectively isolating Massachusetts, Vermont, New Hampshire, Connecticut, and Iowa as the only states who have granted the right for gays to marry through legislation or the courts.
On October 6th, Louisiana Justice of the Peace Keith Bardwell denied an interracial couple a marriage license, effectively taking us back to the 1800’s where Jim Crow laws ruled supreme allowing most U.S. states to prohibit interracial marriage.
How are these two separate events related? It seems that even as we press ahead as a Nation in achieving momentous social, civil, and political rights for all both here and abroad, refusing to give someone the privilege of loving the person of their choosing under the law because of one’s own personal beliefs (or prejudices) continues to cross color, gender, and sexual preference lines in the U.S. judicial system. As the New York Senate’s decision proves, (now former) Justice of the Peace Bardwell isn’t the most recent person in a position of judicial authority to use the power of his office to deny someone their right to love under the law. But the right to marry should not be an issue of personal belief revolving around sanctity, moral judgments, or religious ideology, but rather should be looked at as the civil rights issue it truly is.
“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights; that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”
As citizens of the United States, we are all equal under the law so says our own Declaration of Independence, but apparently all of us do not have the right to chose to love differently than the majority of America today and still be recognized under the law. Just as in the U.S. of the 1950’s, when equality under the law was but a dream for most African Americans until the Civil Rights Movement helped compel America to end legally sanctioned discrimination, in the realm of gay marriage, we are now seeing the majority of Americans again voting on the rights of the minority here in America.
So just as the world and many my friends in Louisiana were ashamed that in the United States, after race riots and civil rights legislation, after affirmative action debates and seeing our first black leaders in business, government, and industry, we are still being confronted with someone abusing their position of power in defense of “protecting” people who are old enough (in their eyes and also in the eyes of the law) to make their own decisions, should we not be ashamed to frame the debate over marriage as anything other than a civil rights issue which lies at the heart of our principals of freedom and equality essential to us as Americans?
I wonder if all of the people who voted no on Proposition 8 or if all the representatives who voted down gay marriage in Legislatures across the U.S. are equally as disgusted at reading about a judge in Louisiana declaring that an interracial couple does not have the right to marry as they are at themselves for declaring that a gay couple does not have the right to marry? I wonder if 60 years from now we will look back as a Nation on these anti-same sex marriage court decisions and voting actions and be as ashamed as we are now about the long history of racial hatred and discrimination in the United States of America?
I believe we will. I am now.
Written by Melissa Mongogna
December 4th, 2009